I work
with successful, smart, responsible men and women
from 30 to 65 - worldwide - who are interested in living
a more fulfilling life and want more love and joy in their lives.
However, they
are stuck in some area of their lives that is causing them pain,
frustration or even misery.
Below are some problem
scenarios that represent the types of issues my clients are dealing
with in their lives.
Are any of the following
situations or scenarios familiar to you?
You
don’t have the love life you want.
While things
are going well in your career you find that your love life is
either non-existent or less than fulfilling. Maybe you’ve
spent so much time at your job that you haven’t devoted
enough time to developing an intimate relationship. Or maybe you
made some relationship choices in the past that didn’t work
out and now you’re afraid to try again. Perhaps you want
a healthy relationship and you don't know how to create one.
You’re
not doing work that thrills you.
You are successful
in your career and it just isn’t satisfying or meaningful
to you. You know you are here to do more than what you
are doing. You see other people who have lives that are so much
more fulfilling. You are stuck and don’t know what to do
to change your situation. And you are afraid that this is how
you’ll have to live the rest of your life.
You're
not completely happy.
Even though you are successful
in many areas of your life, there are one or two areas of your
life where something is missing or lacking. Maybe you’d
like to develop a spiritual life but don’t want to be restricted
by a particular religion. Maybe you have a dream that is unfulfilled.
Perhaps you want to get in shape. Or learn to relax. Despite your
success this lack of something is making you feel dissatisfied
and wanting more and you don’t quite know how to get it.
I am most successful
in working with people who can’t tolerate their situations
any longer. They are frustrated and sometimes even disgusted
and ready to change things. They just need encouragement, some
guidance and someone believing in them so they can figure out
what to do and how to do it.
Successful people know
that it takes time, learning and action to have success in their
lives and they are ready to invest in themselves to get beyond
where they are in order to have the life they want.
RESULTS
What are the results
that my clients can expect to get from coaching with me?
1. When
coaching with me in the area of their love life, people can expect
to have more love in their lives.
They will also repair
relationships, date again if appropriate, set boundaries and learn
how to have healthy relationships.
I work on having
people learn to not take things personally, to not blame
others, instead to take responsibility for their part in making
their relationships work. Then we work on helping them to draw
their boundaries, repair relationships and attract new ones.
Equally important
is the support to get back into dating again, if that
fits. And the support to have love in your life again, especially
after a difficult, painful relationship.
Once we’ve
finished coaching, people are in a whole new place in their lives.
They have love, great relationships – personally and professionally.
And other results occur
that are a by-product of working in this area. Other parts of
a person’s life often get strengthened as well. For instance,
a client’s money issues can get handled, their exercise
habits can improve and they will eat healthier.
Because they
feel better about themselves, their relationships are improved
and they are more comfortable about being in a relationship again,
or they are more comfortable and happier in their present one.
They are accepting of themselves and learn to love others and
themselves – which is crucial to having a great and exciting
love life.
2.
The end result when you focus on not taking things personally
is that you feel free and peaceful.
Often people take things personally
and then feel hurt, rejected, offended or victimized.
The results of learning why and how
not to take things personally are that you have more loving, calmer,
open relationships. You are less stressed and hurt.
And the best result is you’ll
like yourself more because you’ll feel the freedom
that comes from not reacting to what others say and do.
3.
The results from working on finding work that is meaningful and
on purpose are extraordinary.
Several different
results can happen - either a client leaves the job they have
and gets a new job that is more meaningful or they may get a promotion
within their current company to another department that
offers work that is more aligned with their values and therefore
more meaningful. Another possibility is that a client may leave
their job and go back to school for new or advanced education.
Another result is that clients can find new meaning in their present
situation – new challenges, new ways of relating to people.
They may also start a part time project that is either volunteer
or paid that offers them meaning.
They usually
end up making more money – it seems to be a byproduct
of focusing in this area. They always end up more fulfilled and
their lives have more meaning.
4.
Results in the area of something's missing are always exciting
and rich.
Sometimes people
have their love lives and careers in order but they know something
is missing and they want to know what it is. The results
when clients work with me include, and are not limited to, developing
a spiritual focus, meditating, taking vacations, starting and
maintaining a regular exercise program, eating better, budgeting
their money, saving money and learning to trust that they can
balance their lives and that not only will everything be okay,
it will be better.
These results
are tangible and intangible. My clients can experience
a peace that comes from trusting and meditating, a sense of lightness
and feeling great from exercising and eating right, a sense of
relaxation from vacationing and playing, a sense of security from
saving money and a sense of order that comes from budgeting their
money.
The results
of peacefulness, fulfillment and deep joy are perfect reasons
to find what’s missing.
Please go
to the next page
HOW I COACH to learn more about how the coaching
process works –what happens on a call, how long it takes,
how often do you meet. Those questions and more are answered there.
See if it feels like something that might work for you.
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