GO
GET WATER!
“Whatever
advice you give, be short.” These wise words were
shared with us by Horace, a leading Roman lyric poet who
lived from 65 BC to 8 BC.
My short
relationship advice for this month is “go get water.”
It came
to me after hearing the story of how a friend met a wonderful
man.
About three months
prior to meeting him, she had experienced a breakup that
shook her to her core. But she decided to really work on
herself and not be a victim of the ex’s bad behavior.
She took great care of herself, including taking a fabulous
vacation.
When she came
back from her trip she decided to start doing fun things
again with friends. One night she went to a concert. While
she was there she decided to go get water. As she waited
in line she met an amazing man, they struck up a conversation
and soon they started dating. The great news - he is treating
her the opposite of how her ex treated her.
So what’s
the moral? Go get water! In other words, get out there.
When painful things happen, process through them, feel what
you’re feeling and when you’re ready, or maybe
even a little before, get back out in the world.
Too often
we let a painful end to a relationship stop us from having
another relationship. Sometimes for a long, long time. Or
we jump back in without doing any processing. Both are equally
detrimental.
Here’s
what I really want you to know. Once you work on yourself,
heal your heart and get back in the dating world, you’ve
created a forward momentum, attraction energy. You’re
saying yes to be being with a man again. The first man you
date might not be “the one.”
Once
you attract the first man, the attraction process is working
the way you want it to. If the first man isn’t right,
that’s okay, keep getting some water. Remember how
the Law of Attraction works, if it’s not that man,
it will be another one and VERY SOON!
You might think,
but it’ll take three months, a year, five years before
I attract another man. NO! Only if you say that’s
how long it will take. It will take as long as you want
it to take.
The Law
of Attraction is a LAW, whether you believe it or not. So
please realize that once you’ve attracted the first
man, the law says if not him, someone better will be along
and VERY SOON.
The operative
words are VERY SOON. It’s true, only your fear-based
thoughts will keep it from being the reality.
You don’t
have to go on every dating website – one is okay.
You don’t have to go to every event, every party,
or go out with everyone who asks you out. Just live your
life! Do fun things! And do go to places where men are.
After all, you have to be able to interact with them to
meet them.
Don’t
settle. Don’t settle. Don’t settle. Be choosy.
Be determined. Stand up for yourself. Trust the Universe.
The last ezine
– sorry, I know it was really a long article but I
had a lot to say on the subject – dealt with Trust.
If you haven’t read it, please read it. It’s
the most important information I’ve ever shared with
my readers and is really key to you having a fabulous relationship.
So if you’ve
suffered from a bad or unpleasant relationship, work on
yourself and then go get some water.
It’s
your choice to stay at home or get back into the world.
Choose to believe, choose to trust, choose to live and love.
Imagine the possibilities…
People talk about “The Secret” and how it’s
helped them. I’m really glad that it gained so much
popularity. It is about the attraction process. But it doesn’t
focus on one of the main reasons why the attraction process
works.
There is a DVD
entitled, “The Secret Behind ‘The Secret’?”
by Esther and Jerry Hicks. It’s an interview of Esther
channeling Abraham where he reveals the secret behind the
secret.
I encourage you
to buy it and sit and watch it when you have time to absorb
it. The information is crucial to you having the life you
want.
You can order
it on their website:
http://www.abraham-hicks.com
“Life is
supposed to be fun!” Abraham.
I teach people
to overcome the obstacles that keep them stuck yet longing
for romantic relationships, more self-confidence and inspiration
to accomplish their dreams.
We sometimes
forget what it feels like to live from our hearts and souls.
We forget the thrill of taking the brakes off and flying.
Life is dull if we just live from our minds.
Are you - or
someone you know - settling, for less than exciting, either
in relationships or a career?
Call me. You
don't have to be stuck! And once you are unstuck you can
be joyful and free again!
If you would
like to explore working with me, please call me at 310-998-8860.
You can visit
my website at:
http://www.carolchanel.com
You'll find other
articles there and more in-depth information about both
my services and me.
Carol Chanel
Certified Life Coach
http://www.carolchanel.com
mailto: carolchanel@verizon.net
310-998-8860
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