This
is the story of how I found
my soul and my destiny and the
challenges I had to overcome to
find them.
My
journey has been filled with love, joy,
hardships and growth.
I had three near death
experiences - at ages 5, 28, and 48 that shaped
the person and coach I am today. The thing I learned about
almost dying and surviving is how much I want to live. And
not just live!
THRIVE,
SOAR and LOVE!!
And if getting hit by
a car at age 5 and almost dying wasn't enough,
to challenge me, my mother died when I was 7, and at 9 my
father remarried a woman, who didn't want me around. To
make matters worse my father was physically and emotionally
abusive to me.
How did I overcome those
challenges and become a goddess and not a victim?
How did I learn to love? How did I find my destiny?
I, like everyone, am blessed with
a huge heart. And I always had a sense that I had come here
to make a difference.
That desire to make a
difference began more than 30 years ago when I
graduated from the University of Maryland with a degree
in Sociology, specializing in Criminology with a minor in
Psychology. The rehabilitation of women within the prison
system was my training and life's goal. While working at
Maryland's Jessup State Penitentiary for women, I received
a severe dose of reality: I discovered it was all about
incarceration – not rehabilitation.
When I realized my contribution
would not be working in prison, I left and worked at a variety
of service-related jobs.
It was
during this time that I made the first of two significant
life-altering commitments that would positively impact my
life.
The first commitment was to my
health and physical well-being. (A commitment that I still
honor today for myself and use to guide my clients to be
healthier and more fit.)
Still searching and in need of
a change, at age 25 I bought a Pan Am ticket and took off,
by myself, on a trip around the world. What an amazing adventure!!
The incredible experiences, the wonderful people I met,
the beautiful and mysterious places I visited, changed my
entire outlook on life and people. I went from being cynical
and guarded, to open and more trusting.
When I returned from my trip,
I moved to San Francisco to try again to make a contribution
and a difference. I became a fitness trainer and eventually
a sales manager. And for the next 20 years, I worked as
a successful salesperson, manager and sales trainer.
During
those 20 years I made the second significant, life-altering
commitment to myself, and that was to my spiritual growth.
I began to study to learn to be conscious, to love, to forgive,
and to be compassionate. (Spirituality is still my number
one value and I combine the practical with the spiritual
in my coaching for the sake of my clients' consciousness
and growth.)
As I continued to work
on myself, I still knew something was missing from my life.
I had a wonderful, kind, evolved, loving husband; incredible
friends; and restored family relationships. Yet I still
hadn't found my life's purpose work.
Even with all the work I had done
on myself, I still had a core belief - a critical voice,
that said I was an unworthy, unlovable human being. I didn't
love myself. I would look in the mirror and sob because
I thought I was so ugly. No one knew this, because I always
acted upbeat and confident.
And then at 48, I became seriously
ill and had to become quiet; and in that quiet, I found
the truth. I wasn't an unworthy human being. I was lovable.
And
when I finally let the truth in, the answer I had been looking
for came to me. I discovered what I was
supposed to do with my life and how I could give back and
make a difference.
I found life coaching. I studied
at Coaches Training Institute in San Rafael, CA, an institute
that specializes in the co-active model of coaching and
the intuitive approach to life coaching. With the initial
classroom training, and an intensive certification program,
I knew I was finally HOME.
I'm a Certified Life Coach through
the Coaches Training Institute, which is accredited by the
International Coach Federation.
I am so honored to be
making a contribution to people's lives and humbled to have
finally found my life purpose and to have evolved,
loving, joyful, intimate relationships beyond what I could
have ever imagined. It was a long, deeply rewarding, sometimes
difficult, fascinating journey. Thank God I took it. And
thank God for the incredible people who walked the path
with me.
If I can
find love, fulfillment, joy and my purpose,
so can you.
Please go to the TESTIMONIAL
PAGE to read what my clients have to
say about coaching with me. See if any of their results
and benefits are the things you want in your life.